THE POWERFUL YOU

By Frederick Zappone, Life Coach

You are so much more powerful and magnificent than you know and not nearly as bad as you fear.

Recently someone asked me this question:

just curious about how you came to be you -- you are a very remarkable individual,
your perspective on life and people is not something one runs across every day.

How I became me?? :)  The 'force of life' that shaped me in the beginning was pain. Lots of it beginning when I was six years old and my dad had a nervous breakdown and ended up in the hospital where he was given barbaric shock treatments. If you have seen any old videos of the shock treatments they did back then, you will understand what I am talking about.

Then, when I was 7 years old (this may sound silly to you) a nun told me if I committed a sin and didn't get to confession before I died, I would go to hell and never see the face of God for all eternity. As soon as you she said that to me, for reasons I cannot explain, I felt like someone had delivered a fatal blow to my solar plexus and I burst into tears, the crying lasted for hours.

It was back then that I, unwittingly, learned how to focus on what I didn't want because I was terrified of going to hell and the awful things the devil would do to a 7 year old boy like me. 

I didn't know it at the time but when you focus on what you don't want, you attract more of the same. Not knowing that caused me to attract more pain into my life instead of less.

The pain included being married and divorced twice, once to a emotionally abusive woman and the second time to an over the top Christian Woman who literally went crazy on me. She destroyed all my personal possessions and ended up in an mental institution. 

In addition to attracting that kind of emotional pain , two of my children died unexpectedly, John at 18 months (a birth defect) and Beth at age 30 (medical negligence). She left four little girls behind ages 8 to 1 1/2 years old. I also attracted into my life two embarrassing bankruptcies.  

And because I was so skilled at focusing on what I didn't want, I suffered for years from chronic depression and was suicidal at times.  My life was an endless sea of emotional pain until I decided to use the pain life threw my way to find a new way of thinking.

A way of thinking that would set me free from my pain so I could create a life full of joy, inspiration, happiness, success and prosperity. I did just that for myself rather than continuing to live in fear, doubt and dread. Today, life is good, it is very, very good to me. 

I have no debt whatsoever. I pay for everything with cash even though I have outstanding credit these days. I have excellent health, I take no pills or medication of any kind.

I have been in a loving relationship with Vona for over 8 years. My relationship with her is built on absolute honesty.  I tell her my truth about myself all the time even if that truth is not the prettiest because telling my truth works. I haven't lied to Vona since day one and I never will.

Speaking my truth, my honesty, to all people, all the time, is my integrity. Speaking my truth, not someone's else's truth, allowed me to release the emotional and physical pain* from my life.

Speaking my truth (my honesty) at all times and under all circumstances is the only thing that allowed me to reclaim all of my power that I had, unwittingly, given away to other people, institutions, companies and organizations down through the years.

Telling your truth boldly and courageously to all people all the time is the way you take back the power you have given away to others over the course of your lifetime.

Speaking your truth to all people, under all circumstances, all the time is your key to having all the love, health, happiness and prosperity you can handle. It has been for me.

LIFE TRAINS EVERYONE TO BE ADDICTED TO PAIN......

Life trains everyone to be addicted to pain, no one escapes. It is up to us to set ourselves free from pain. The pain you become addicted to could come from an abusive childhood or horrific events you experienced or witnessed early in life.

Maybe your pain came from a divorce, or seeing your parents suffer. There are a thousand ways we become addicted to pain but there is only one way we can become pain free. And that is telling our truth, first to ourselves and then to all others...and telling our truth consistently.

Until you are free to speak your truth all the time and under all circumstances you will always live your life in pain (emotional and/or physical) from the mild to the extreme. Until you are free to speak your truth, you will continue to show up in the world as the 'counterfeit version of you' always hating yourself because you are not fully expressing your truth, power and light to others.

Telling your truth is the way you release the pain from your life.

As a life coach, I give people the tools they need so they are set free from the pain that is stopping them from living the happy, healthy, prosperous life they are destined to live...

If you want to show up in the world as the FULL BLOWN YOU.... I can help...

If you want to release yourself from your 'pain programming,' I can help.

If you have questions about expressing 'your power' into the world, I can help, Click here

Frederick

* Author Note: Every time I released emotional pain from my life, a release of physical pain followed. My personal experience has proven to me beyond a shadow of a doubt that the two types of pain are related. Release emotional pain and the physical pain along with cause of the physical pain dissolves naturally. - Frederick Zappone)

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